Comment by Cat on Holy water needed

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@Holy water needed

bro don't generalize violent/forceful tendencies during s** just because that's perhaps ur personal preference or maybe u've read too many bls and gotten used to it. It's never okay, when they say stop slry just stop. Here it seems "okay" since the top can actually get out of that position as seen previously but what about when roles are switched or if they can't? That is def assault. Why should we be double standard and brush it off when they are "strong" or didn't get out the situation even if they physically could when they clearly stated they didn't want it? Just learn to have boundaries and treat people as u want to be treated. If they like it then sure, good, do you, but it's selfish to only think of ur emotions and ignore the other's. It's not stupid or weak to be able to identify and call out when someone is clearly out of line, it's called having human empathy. I get where ur coming from but i don't think we should just ignore those shi*** behaviours. Awareness it's what helps stop dark history from repeating itself.

(Also, I don't mean to be rude. Sorry if I came off that way orsounded harsh)

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@Cat bro don't Generalize your v-tim mindset here just because you got fuked , enjoyed it but never resisted properly and called it a$$ault .or maybe perhaps you are have been raised in a way where they taught you how to play the v-tim card ? That's not at all okay. First of all open the dictionary and understand what assault actually means . If someone is getting assaulted or force by their partners they don't just say stop alone they resist with their body , mouth , mind and heart . If they really mean stop they would do anything to stop them .and I'm talking about this story exactly not any other story so why are you bringing your personal problems out here ? I clearly said here it's not assault . He could overpower him at any moment but he didn't . He doesn't feel assaulted but you sure do huh ? And yeah if someone is getting assaulted and they could get out any time but they didn't that isn't assault just using " stop " isn't the solution if you are getting assaulted . Just learn the word properly before bringing your v-tim mindset bs here okay ? It's selfish to put your partner in jail and consider them r-pist when they were mentally unstable and you didn't even try to stop them properly. Don't ignore your partners feelings just Because you grew up with victim mindset .it's called common sense which you probably lack I think .I get you have your personal feelings but don't bring it here on a fictional story. Awareness is what helps dark history like victim mindset repeat the history.  
( Also I didn't mean to be rude you were just so stupid I burst out laughing, sorry again)
@Cat And please don't get in a relationship unless you erase that victim mindset of yours you will ruin that dude so emotionally he would consider every women a trash after you destroyed him. You should read Oxford dictionary instead of reading bl