Comment by Not your Business on Roses and Champagne - Chapter 68

Comment on ChapterRoses and Champagne - Chapter 68
hey i know this is actually a platform for reading and stuff but i have to get rid of this and don't know who to tell this so i say it to strangers i don't know anyways i have a group of friends everything is fine but nobody in this friend group is in my class in my class i have a "friend" and she's a bit weird i don't know how to say it anyway she asked if we could go out i wrote didn't feel like it the next day she asked again and i said again I didn't feel like it, but I also canceled my other friends that I've known for a long time because I just didn't feel like it. The one from my class replied like you just dont want to do something with me and I'm not in the mood for your sh** and so the next day everything was fine again she acted as if nothing was wrong and that day we just made a ship acc where we just shipped 2 people were we always made fun of them fitting together and the ones from our class found the acc and we both acted as if we didn't know who it was and I was at home and the person we shipped in the video wrote to me and said I was that and so I said I didn't make the video that friend from my class she did it but she said it was your idea andi said i have no idea because i have a short memory and the friend from my class was with her i just said don't know who had the idea the friend from my class has said it was me and the girl that was in the video said you know it was you admit it and so I said the whole time I have no idea and then
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she said I know it was you (the friend in my class) I said ok if you think I had the idea it probably is like that but I still don't know if that's true and I said it doesn't matter now and the other girl constantly interfered yes she was shipped on tiktok and stuff like that but still and now we're apparently friends again or something like that what should I do? because she's the only friend in my class but I'm not in the mood for fake friends either, I also have friends in the other classes who I also hang out with and so what happens when we have projects and like that she's actually quite nice but sometimes it's just like that, I say always live so that you have as little regret as possible, but somehow I don't stick to my own saying (I have no idea whether you understood it because I'm german and my grammar is not the best and I'm not good at explaining but can anyone help me?) and I'm sorry that I burden you with my problems :(pepe sticker
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hey :) bin selbst deutsch und schreibe deswegen mal auf deutsch :D ich habe ehrlich gesagt nicht alles zu 100% verstanden aber ich finde es ist immer super wichtig, dass man sich wohl fühlt mit Freunden. Wenn du bei der Freundin aus deiner Klasse schon dieses komische Gefühl im Bauch hast und merkst, es passt meistens nicht, würde ich mich schon eher distanzieren. Man muss ja nicht gleich die Freundschaft beenden, sondern langsam etwas mehr Abstand suchen aber trotzdem noch in Gruppenarbeiten oder in der Pause mal sprechen. Wir Klassenkameraden halt, nur nicht wie gute Freunde. Ich denke, wenn du weiterhin kein zu treffen sagst, würde sie es bald aufgeben oder nicht? Du kannst ihr auch direkt sagen, dass du dich unwohl fühlst aber das könnte auch zu einem Konflikt führen. Keine Ahnung wie sie so drauf ist und damit umgehen kann. Ich kenne das selbst, dass ich mich manchmal schlecht behandelt fühle, auch von Freunden, aber es einfach über mich ergehen lasse weil ich zu schüchtern/ Konfliktscheu bin. Du solltest nicht den gleichen Fehler machen und auf deine Gefühle achten. Ich hoffe dir hat das irgendwie geholfen :) fühl dich gedrückt
@Not your Business Don't lie because as you've seen it's just not good right and if you do something wrong you ought to seek forgiveness because it's good even *for your conscience* .You've got friends that's great but if it gets too much remember you go to school to learn not to make friends . You may make them along your journey but while having fun and great times -just be honest to yourself and those around you and you'll surely make even better memories.

So apologize