Comment by gggirl on One room TA - Chapter 60

Comment on ChapterOne room TA - Chapter 60

I feel like people don’t really understand that it doesn’t matter how much hardship you’ve been through,you still can’t invalidate someone else’s pain. Pain isn’t a competition. Everyone’s pain is valid, and bad people aren’t simply born bad. A lot of abusive and terrible people have trauma of their own; they’ve suffered too, but that doesn’t justify their harmful behavior.

Song Rik’s behavior is understandable considering his trauma, his mindset, and everything he’s been through, but it doesn’t make it justifiable. He’s still abusive and in the wrong. What he needs is to distance himself from Jinhyeong, meet some responsible adults who can actually help him, and get counseling and Therapy

I just hope that now that he’s grown up, he’s in a better  and healthy environment and has realized that his behavior was wrong 

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What shall i put
What shall i put·1 month ago

@gggirl Agreed no pain should be invalidated but I do think one pain can be statistically harder to get through than others. So if he stopped at just my pain is harder to get through, live through and escape then I'd be fine with that
Idk some ppl might disagree with me