Im really glad they had this argument not gonna lie. A relationship without arguments even small ones like pineapple on or off pizza isnt one where I personally can survive as the communication is lacking. The tension from the chapters prior are still very much there.
Okay so Garam has other issues. Not big ones. More like stuff which has affected him that he doesnt know. The fact that Jaehyuk half put together birthday surprise was bigger than what he has experienced in how long is very telling. I also feel like the conversation with Jaehyuks mothers is still weighing on him. That being said. He has every right to be afflicted at the fact Jaehyuk hid so many things. But the difference is. Those were major things. This was minor. If you can not just let him know minor events in your life thats honestly a reason to be upset. But at the same time. He also forgot it was his own birthday. Crazy. It generally felt as if Garam wasnt gonna say anything. Jaehyuk isnt perfect, very spontaneous but he at least told him. The house is a separate issue but everything else he did tell Garam. Maybe not asap but he did. Also... they were in the past and he apologised. Garam who hurt you. The rings reaction also was weird. "Embarassing" no I think you have some unresolved trauma. Now Jaehyuk is still very much in the wrong. Ignore the fact he just never asked showing he was busy, he still keeps major decisions LIKE SUING PURPLE HAIR in the dark from him. He HASNT changed. 3 times hes done this. Its unfair he demanded to know about purple hair and Garam said "okay...fine" but when he wants to know its suddenly not important. COMMUNICATE PEOPLE. AND THIS HOW YOU DO IT.
Okay so Garam has other issues. Not big ones. More like stuff which has affected him that he doesnt know. The fact that Jaehyuk half put together birthday surprise was bigger than what he has experienced in how long is very telling. I also feel like the conversation with Jaehyuks mothers is still weighing on him. That being said. He has every right to be afflicted at the fact Jaehyuk hid so many things. But the difference is. Those were major things. This was minor. If you can not just let him know minor events in your life thats honestly a reason to be upset. But at the same time. He also forgot it was his own birthday. Crazy. It generally felt as if Garam wasnt gonna say anything. Jaehyuk isnt perfect, very spontaneous but he at least told him. The house is a separate issue but everything else he did tell Garam. Maybe not asap but he did. Also... they were in the past and he apologised. Garam who hurt you. The rings reaction also was weird. "Embarassing" no I think you have some unresolved trauma. Now Jaehyuk is still very much in the wrong. Ignore the fact he just never asked showing he was busy, he still keeps major decisions LIKE SUING PURPLE HAIR in the dark from him. He HASNT changed. 3 times hes done this. Its unfair he demanded to know about purple hair and Garam said "okay...fine" but when he wants to know its suddenly not important. COMMUNICATE PEOPLE. AND THIS HOW YOU DO IT.
