Comment by I am se** and I know it. on Ashes

@I am se** and I know it. oh my days dude just accept that we were JOKING. No one fuc**** cares if you're into bdsm either irl or just in manhwa. You probably just like reading it, and that's what we meant. There's no need for paragraphs copy and pasted from chat gpt

@I am se** and I know it.

Baby it's you who the joke seriously and dragged "self respect" into it in the first place. Then it is not an opinion anymore, it is a judgement. It’s funny how we’re agreeing on everything but somehow one of us has ‘higher self respect.’ I didn’t realize reading the same manhwa came with rankings.

(And I'm gay and I'm a man, and I'm into this sh** and sometimes I do this sh** with my man, alright I get that you enjoy it when it’s mutual and consensual, so do I, and I agree with you with most of your statements here but why did you have to reply to my joke with this "I am really not into humiliation"(did I say that you're?) "My self respect bar is too high"(did I say that it is not?) "But I do have something for consent in s*x"(did I say that you don't?) Huh? That's what I'm talking about. Was it unnecessary? I find those words offensive and confusing. 

Opinions are fine. Judgments disguised as opinions aren’t. We can enjoy the same things, agree on the same standards, and still respect each other. There's no need to make it into a competition of self respect.

I hope I made myself clear, and I won't be replying anymore. Because I'm not trying to fight with you anything like that. Sorry if I sound rude.♥️ 

@I am se** and I know it. So basically what you're saying is reading manhwas about bdsm is fine but if someone do it irl their self respect is lower? And youre above that? lol nice opinion I guess