Comment by enitocin on ILAY_SIDECHICK

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@ILAY_SIDECHICK Hi, so the weirdo thats saying that its your fault is completely wrong. If ending the friendship feels like a heavy rock was lifted off your shoulders, it means you did the right thing for yourself. Her insecurity should not be your problem or responsibility. That is something she herself should reflect on. Also, it should be normal to feel guilty afterwards, like its "your fault". It only feels that way because thats how she made it look. If she tries to make up with you or start over, that is your choice. However, if this is not the first time she has "made up" with you, its better to take some time to think about it. I made this mistake of accepting an "apology" a few years ago and I am now facing the consequences of that this year. If you're afraid about having no friends then you could always explain the situation with another close friend (better if that friend is not close with your (ex) bestfriend ), if they don't see a problem with what shes doing, it's better to find a new crowd to be around. 

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@enitocin But lwk everytime we fight. Im the one who apologizes and try to save the friendship. She always says that she is going to do better this time. But never changes her behavior. She is still mean towards me. Makes fights over little things and then thinks that im acting innnocent. Im not gonna lie, sometimes i do things that are bad to. But i say sorry and she doesnt. Even tho she ended the friendship like always. She expects that i return to her like always. But im done with her. I feel much better now and i dont wanna be friends with her againpepe sticker