@Lex sorry but with that thought you should not even read BL in first place? Tons of BL have this, it's a fantasy. There might be more people on here that had gone through abuse or harassment than you think, and yet they still enjoy this kinda reading. Having to go through an experience like that irl is horrible. But it got nothing to do with sexual fantasies at all, no-one expects this to happen in real life we just love the fictional story or the fantasy....