@Ramiel what I meant to say is that if you're meant to have a girlfriend, it will happen. If it becomes a long and fulfilling relationship and you put in the effort to understand one another, find common ground and build up closeness over time, it will happen.
If an incel tried to get a girlfriend for the wrong reasons and she ends up getting abused, then I'd step in as a concerned citizen and risk imprisonment to bring them to a safe space. I would do the same thing if the man was the victim of domestic abuse and save him from a disgusting femcel.