@y0u4remy3ve so you are aaying an 18 year old can be with a 30 year old because they are hoth "adults" its weird asf to be with someone who was in high school or collage when you were in diaper
Comment by Kappy on y0u4remy3ve
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@Kappy usually, people with age gaps date because not only are they adults, but their psychological maturity and ideals align. people seem to forget that mentally, one's age can differ from their physical age from external factors. a 30 year-old could have been extra cuddled all their live and be more immature while a 18/20 year-old could have been the one taking care of everything in their household because of awful parents and naturally be more mature, and with that, be capable of dating someone their age, as an example. when i think of "age is just a number", this is everything i take into account. the human being is complex, and every single one of us are not the same.