@ToyBoy That's dangerous. Just because a person has gone through bad experiences doesn't mean that their actions are justified . There's a difference between explaining why a person turned out how they did and justifying what they caused. Example feeling sorry for a r*apist because they were r*aped as a child. Or forgiving an abusive partner because their parents used to abuse them as kids. Be careful with the statement you said because at the end of the day your empathy can cause issues for victims or make you a victim too