Comment by Amen on i love babies but

@i love babies but totally agree with Paryz above. I had an episode at 14, child at early 15. Another two over the years, all unplanned 😅. Married, divorced, I worked and supported them myself, because men (on average) fade into the blue yonder when faced with that responsibility (though there are a few good ones). I was blessed to be able to be independent as I had a good profession work wise. Maybe too independent. But it taught me to rely on myself as much as possible and not to rely too much on a man's sweet whispers. But one thing I learned, and that is that things happen for a reason. Always. Nothing in the world is uncorrelated, be it good or bad. I also have become aware that actions have reactions , some call it karma. It might just not be in the same manner. Your baby was not meant to come into this world but something will come along to compensate for that. I've also found that if you're young enough, time does heal many things and life becomes bearable and even happy, though now it's still too fresh in your mind. The guy that you trusted was also not meant for you, you dodged a bullet, the lying kind. Learn from the experience but don't become cynical or bitter because of it, he simply is not worth it and our lifespans are not even a sigh in the universe. 
I hope you have some sort of family/friend/s support. You'll be fine and come out stronger and better for it. That's life. Rooting for you 💪