Comment by Kokoro on Crossing the Line - Chapter 116

@Kokoro hold your horses. Given his behavior he's most likely going to be extra clingy. And convinently show up everywhere

@Kokoro Disagree on the last sentence: from love to hatred, as they say. And knowing how deep Jaehyuk's love runs, no way he's giving up on Garam. He's gonna fight till the end, whatever this end will be. And that includes torture as well. Understandable, in my opinion.

@Tetiana torture is understandable...? To you hear/read yourself?? How old are you? I hope there's still time to grow out of this view of romance, love and passion. It's extremely unhealthy.

@Thick thighs saves lives I hope you're right!!! That why I put a question mark. But to me it rang an alarm. But my alarm system is easily triggered

@Kokoro A kid lecturing an adult, or what? You must have experienced few to no relationships at all. Those you don't want to have around in your life you simply ignore without wasting your precious time. And those you really love, you fight for them. That's why Jaehyuk's not letting Garam simply go.

@Kokoro Good luck with your relationships! With that mindset of yours you'd probably need it.

@Tetiana what has any of that to do with being pro-torture in a relationship? Torture isn't "understandable" or acceptable under any circumstance!
I am not a teenager or kid, but I'm sure even the readers of those ages know already that torture has nothing to do with love,romance or passion.
Thank you I am happy with my relationships👌
TORTURING or hurting a person you like isn't fighting for a person. You just hurt them, it doesn't matter if your intention was to hold them back from leaving.
I never talked about jaekyung or garam in my answer to you. I was reacting to you writing:
cit. "He's gonna fight till the end, whatever this end will be. And that includes torture as well. Understandable, in my opinion."

@Kokoro What do you name the pain Garam in

@Kokoro What do you name the pain Garam inflicted on Jaehyuk if not torture, then? Sure, there're enough synonyms with the same/near-same meaning. If you never experienced that deep love, you won't understand > useless to talk about it.
And there's no "talk" about being "pro-torture" or not, don't twist the written above.

@Tetiana you wrote it like that. "Even torture" and that it's "understandable"

and yes garam hurt jaehyuk with his insecurities and the actions he took because of that. He did that not aware of the pain he'd inflict, because he's too caught up in his old wounds.(not a good thing but just fact, trauma doesn't just vanish because you found someone who loves you).It's really painful to watch since he's hurting his partner and himself with it.
if jeahyuk now would inflict pain on purpose it would be a completely different thing. It would show a evil character. That's why I hope he won't. It was good of him to give garam an ultimatum. Garam needs to pull himself out enough to make a decision for or against the relationship. jaehyuk made clear he wants a relationship out of the closet. Clear set boundaries are a good first step.

even if you use the word "torture" as a metaphor (not synonym), it still means to purposefully hurt someone to force what you want.
that's not fighting for love. People don't hurt people to get back together with them. That's not how love works.