Mincheol and hae soo are both delusional in their own way. How does he expect her to feel closeness with him? He doesn’t help her at all, always in a bad mood, he’s always complaining and on top of that has her paying his debt like what do you expect? He only wants her when he wants to have s** and if she refuses he acts like an a**. Obviously no one’s going to want to sleep with you when you act like a pr***. He didn’t try at all to save his relationship and maybe both of them are at fault but he only sees the flaws in her.
Comment by Harikita on Tears on a Withered Flower - Chapter 17
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@Harikita haesoo is not at fault though. She was manipulated by him, she was an easy target for him to take advantage on. Haesoo, being in denial and blinded by the love she had for him. Considering that they were married for a long time and divorced. Mincheol knew what he was doing when he put his debts on her name because he did not want to work for sh**. He just doesn't give a fu** about her. Instead, he wanted to use her, to play her like a doll and let her do everything for him while he becomes the da** fuc**** princess and don't do a da** fuc**** sh** in the house. The fault is entirely his. Haesoo is not at fault. She has been through a lot. Since childhood she was in poverty, mincheol knows that, he knew what she went through and still he made her life worst! Like what kind of husband is that? That is a dumbass right there. Haesoo, because that man said he would remarry her once the debts were paid, haesoo put that thought that there was hope to get remarried and work hard. But the constant work drained the he** out of her, that she was so exhausted she didn't even have time to spend with him. Besides, he was always throwing himself on her for s**. That fuc**** bi***. That's all he wanted. He went to another woman because haesoo stop being intimate and he felt like there was no fun in the relationship because that's all he wanted. Fun, he didn't want to have a deep emotional connection he just wanted to fuq and dip. Well guess what, karma is gonna slam his a** so fuc**** hard his hole would enlarge like a hoe.
@Chanwoo I’m not saying she doesn’t have reasons or that is her fault. He’s as a**? Yes. Does he deserve her coldness? Yes. But she has shut down her emotions and doesn’t communicate her feelings whether they’re good or bad. She has trapped her self in that relationship because she doesn’t ask what needs to be asked. She deludes her self into thinking their relationship could be what it used to and that’s clearly not the case. They already let that relationship go a long time ago. But know she will hopefully wake up and stop letting him treat her like. My comment was more a take on his inner dialogue. I
@Harikita even if she says her feelings he doesn't care. He is more focus on himself. He literally won't care about her no matter how much she expresses herself. Maybe a part of him might at first but he would then discard her feelings because his feelings are much more important than hers. She is just in denial. Because she can't accept that mincheol is really cheating on her. She keep telling excuses. This happens because of deep trauma and betrayal of trust. That's why she keeps holding on even though she knows deep down she needs to let go. I agree about the part where she needs to leave him, I pray she leaves him next chapter. Because that mincheol bch is crazy
@Chanwoo Yes, I hope it won't be dragged for too long. And she is able to liv for herself and not for that ungrateful pos.