@Mothdye she said divorce shouldn't be considered a shame for a woman who was betrayed, that the one who must be blamed is the betrayer. She actually is very clever, bcoz even though she says it, she makes it clear both man and woman shouldn't act bad in a marriage, but if they do, the betrayed one must not be blamed when decide to divorce. Mendoza is a capital full of promiscuity and also people don't see love as a good thing. That's why she loves Calstera (bcoz people are more simple and aren't ashamed of love), and that's also the reason when Isabela asked about Ines and Carcel sleeping in the same bedroom, Ines used some excuses (in the novel), like saying the house is small so they need to share the bedroom (that's a lie, the house is not this small, Carcel who wanted to share, and in the beginning she disliked the idea, but now she dislikes the idea of him *not sleeping* in the same bed of hers)