Dude you are utter trash as a husband. No just no! You can say you were doing things for her benefit but you completely ignored the results, how is that doing something for someone you care about? If you care then you pay attention to the results. Completely ignoring how the first time-line ended up... you keep making the same mistakes in this one! Something something same thing over and over again? I'm not a fan of this guy but you are just garbage.