Comment by Reenu Tamang on Tears on a Withered Flower - Chapter 42

Comment on ChapterTears on a Withered Flower - Chapter 42
I was in relationship for 3 years with a boys he was my second love actually after I got cheated with my 1st love I thought I won't believe in love but that boy make me feel loved again I start to open up my heart for next 2 years he was so good nice but Suddenly recent year he start to be cold,  indifferent saying I'm annoying and irrigating him I cry beg I give ever chance to him when I was being myself he say I'm childish i need to be mature when I was trying to be mature he say childish is cute whenever he want he talk whenever he don't want he fight and leave me behind but then.....
I finally give up on him I broke up with him 
I love him but I don't want to experience that hurtful words again nor do I want to cry every night and sleep with heavy heart

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@Reenu Tamang  I'm so sorry to hear that, but I'm glad you respect yourself and left him. I'm wishing you the best, and I don't know if it helps (probably not), but I will also share my experience in dating. I was dating a boy for like almost 2 years, and I broke up with him because he didn't treat me very well. Like, he would yell at me every time he was angry (even if it was not my fault, like for example when he would play video games), and he wouldn't talk to me if I didn't message him first. I ended up breaking up with him, and after that, he said to me that he is the best and that he would always lie that I'm the best and that he tolerated me this time. He even said that I want to f*** other boys and that I'm a sl** (I'm a virgin). Like, he said he loved me and not to leave him, but he would still say bad things about me. I ended up blocking him on some social media apps but not on every one because he wouldn't give me another message (I'm hoping).
After some time, I started to talk to another boy. We were in the talking stage for like 2 or 3 months, but he ghosted me after that, and he posted on his story a boomerang with him holding a girl's hand and some hearts. Kinda rude for not telling me, but we weren't dating, and I still think he is a good man because he would always talk nicely and share his problems, help with mine and everything. He would make me laugh every time. Even though he was mean and didn't tell me, I still respect him, and sometimes I get depressed over him, but I can't be mad at him, so it's fine.
I'm sorry for making this so long. I'm hoping for your best and also for you to find someone who could treat you the best. Hoping you good.pepe sticker
@I m a simp too ur one is more rude 😟 why every boys are same ( let's be friends in insta gurl 🥺)
@Reenu Tamang I'm so sorry for you that you had to experience such a heartbreaking thing but I can relate my father is kinda the same tho it's because his father was adicted and he would beat his wife but thank g** my father doesn't beat my mom thanks to her strong personality she was able to raise 3 healthy kids in a good enviroment tho I did suffer a little bit as I am the oldest but my mom tried her best to change my father and my father was also an undersanding person so he got rid of his addiction and became a good father.
So I hope the best for you and I hope you'll find a suitable husband ( a single virgin who doesn't even know how hard it is to find a husband talking here pepe-2 sticker)                 coin sticker
@I m a simp too I'm also sorry for you hope you find someone better who falls HAAAARD for you (I just hope he doesn't break from the fall cuz girl I know not anyone can fall for you it has to be you're type so that he finds a cozy bed waiting for him down there in you're heart so that he never go away)
@hallo girlll, I m so sorry to hear that, but I m happy that you could move on from the bad memories and your father could stop his addiction, i m happy that ur so strong and gurlll stay storngg, thanks for ur warming word's and hope u have a good heart like u do now, like girlll love u and hope just good things for yyouuu