And even if the pain is tolerable and you don't bleed there's still a BIG chance of it doing some damage, especially if it's more than once.
Nobody wants hem0rrhoids or any other 4ss related issues.
Not -supposed- to hurt the first time either btw, but being nervous might make it hard to relax enough.
I just went full s3x ED in the comment section, huh. Oh well. Felt important lmao