Well at the end of the day every person loves in there own kind of way. Some love through body contact like hugs and kisses or something by putting love into the food they make. Every person is different. So no one can tell you how to love someone the right way. The best way is still asking how your partner likes to be Loved. It could be that the partner doesn't likes body contact for example but loves something else more. So asking is still the best way to know