@WalterWhite does that make it okay?? it's disgusting that sa/grape is so normalised in bl and that's why everyone's so into it bc "as long as the love interest likes it, it's ok" and also most ppl that ARE ok with the sa/grape are straight women who for some reason love to fetishise it to the point where they find grape scenes hot. no matter what consent is important especially with anything that represents 2 ppl who are meant to be in love cuz otherwise, it's just romanticising sh** like this (mb for the rant)