Comment by 4voz on Jinx - Chapter 46

@Terrorizeme maam this is a bl community..... please keep these to yourself as none of us idiots here can help but ummmm if he really do love his girlfriend he might not like u? i mean ive experienced it it usually happens between two opposite gender or 2 les/gay ppl but if they allready found someone u might not really have a chance and the flirting yall used to do was just something to keep eachother accompanied. either way pls do not trust idiots like us and have some help irl best of luck to you bae

@Terrorizeme GUURRLLL 😭🤌 are yo sure ur happy with your bf as much as you are with H?? 😭😭🤌

@Terrorizeme  
(Sorry my eng is not the best)
i think the fact that you started flirting as a joke, made a passion between you both, even as a joke it can cause some feelings.
tor example, my ex bf and i were flirting sm and always say stuff like "date me" until he came out and said date me, seriously, and i cannot say no back then because if the feelings I've got just from joking.. yet, i dont tell you its not love (what you feel) im just giving you an example for that extra flirting.
if you really love him, think, is he the one you want to be with? What things you live abt him? What's your chance to be good for each other?
but also i think, if he got a girlfriend, he must be jokingly flirting with you, and you also got yourself a bf (congrats!) if you really was in love with him, you wouldn't get over him right? Be sure of your feelings, and my advice if you don't mind me giving some.. focus on you relationship, your current bf, care for each other, it'll be the best to keep a relationship you feel comfortable at, i wish the best, for you and ur bf and for H.

@Cretaceus  i cab agree with that

@Chanhwaa i amm,he spoils me and treats me like i matter to him,i rant about H all the time to my bf tho😭

@Terrorizeme

 hmm.. I believe it's just an unconscious feeling of attraction? I'm not so sure! But for like understanding more you're both dating yet you're just unsure of your feelings towards him or? 

I can help if I have some form of better understanding! ^_^

@Raz he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend,im unsure if i liked him before i got into a new relationship since he helped me thru a toxic one,he spoke and hung out with me nearly everyday for hours,at the time of my toxic relationship he had a girlfriend whom was also toxic,once he got out of that relationship he started to flirt with me.hope that helps!

@Terrorizeme  I understand now!

i might not be 100% correct but I'll share anything that I might know, but I believe the way you feel the way you do is cause of the fact at the time he helped you especially out of a toxic relationship and showed you love which was maybe platonic (meaning affectionate but not romantic!) yet you thought differently cause of how you used to be treated differently! That's very common and nothing to be ashamed of! I hope this was of somewhat help! ^_