As I said before, giving My Beloved Oppressor vibes. Like seriously I'm not in any way trying to undermine what they went through, but they have to stop acting like this. Trauma isn't a reason (you can use EVERY time for the rest of your life ) to justify your actions. You have to let it go, you don't have to forget it, and I know it's way easier said than done, but still! You're not even trying to be better, you just act like a bigger a** hole! Someone get FL a man/life she deserves