@Yurat you're right about Ian making the final judgement. But you have to be real and accept the fact that Jo is the one who can give Ian the healthy relationship that he deserves. I'm not saying this because I like jo better than Tj. That's not true. I'm saying that because its a fact and some people like yourself can't seem to take it in because of their love for tj. (I don't mean to be rude its just a thought)