Comment by meow on Crossing the Line - Season.4 notice.111

is it crazy to say i definitely understand both sides to some degree... like i understand why Jaehyuk is upset, he really cares about garam and him not telling him about his birthday is probably really hurtful. Because, probably everyone knows BUT him. In some way, I also feel like it's about him pledging to be the best boyfriend because of the past and so, him not knowing ruins that pledge.. yk?? I also understand garam, because I've quite literally done that before, I have some really bad experiences during my birthday so I'm not too worried about someone not saying hbday or whatnot. I feel like garam has a REASON but didn't get to say anything out of shock and probably frustration or guilt idk so in result jaehyuk probably took that and his rejection to the rings really badly.

If im looking at the full picture, there just needs to be better communication between them 🫩.. garam needed to tell him sometime before to avoid this situation or at least explain the day of and jaehyuk needs to learn how to regulate a little better. Not diminishing what he was feeling , but 1 "holding it down" makes it a lot worse instead of just talking about it and 2 his reaction overtime can cause a lot of resentment and just bad stuff in the relationship if he never really TALKS through it. Anyways those are my 2 cents if anyone cares ..