@Sheateeunhyeok kinda late but just saw this, just bc it's common doesn't mean it's ok, nd ofc the bottom will end up liking it, it's romantization, authors will always do that, people can STILL feel uncomfy w jinx even if it's not only abt ra**, please have common sense nd think that BL is mostly made by people that FETISHIZE the idea of to man FUC****
In a situationship but at what cost.