I'm actually not gay but I'm not homophobic either. Because I know that there are all kinds of people and everyone has their own preference. Also as long as someone's happy why bother saying or doing something that makes them uncomfortable or unhappy. People are who they are no one can change anyone or should try to change anyone because it's their own live they should make their own choices. Also homophobia and heterophobia both are actual things I actually searched it and I think that both are bad. If you can't say something nice to someone then just stay quiet ? ?