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AAAHHHHHH I love them sm.

Daddy

To all the vanilla folk confused, I gotchu. 

The bottom/uke (black hair cause idk names) obvi has a crush on the top/seme but hasn't admitted it even to himself, it seems. They've been engaging in regular k!nky s3x and spending leisure time together, kinda like fwb except it seems like their time together ALWAYS ends in the naughty. A lot of what's going on is just repetition on k!nk education, the uke being flustered, and the seme thinking dirty thoughts which aren't bad they're just general things I assume doms think, as I myself am a sub (love the thought of someone thinking they wanna make a mess outta me YALL). Not much plot has happened outside of this chapter telling us how they've been meeting frequently. The seme says he feels comfortable with the uke, which in my experience of BL reading, is the precursor to catching feels but being unaware of the fact he did so lol.

Anyways, don't be alarmed. Not much has happened. I think the technical talk of BDSM/k!nk has got a lot of people confused along with nuances that come from the community. Don't panic lol.

Idk about y'all but, disregarding any concerns about the ring, I stan a health approach to k!nk right now. It's usually depicted falsely as a s3x-only SA situation, but that is NOT the case here, so far. Some people limit their activities to the bedroom which is fine as long as it is agreed upon. But the lifestyle is not just bedroom activities. However, they discussed and agreed. So far, the Dom is very clear about his expectations. The pressure the sub here is feeling is internalized from his ignorance and inability to properly communicate this, so I admit the Dom should slow down and ensure understanding and stuff, but he's not a mind reader , to our knowledge lol. But there's even a contract, tho contracts are rare IRL. More of a verbal agreement. He established the importance of safe words or signs, and is checking in at every point possible and ensuring comfort and consent. He executes the scene, provides after care, and holds an actual discussion on how the scene went, what the sub thinks and feels and so on. The worst part is that the sub feels pressured when he shouldn't and the Dom is maintaining all of the weight of the agreement one-sidedly DUE to the ignorance.
If there's anything that would be better, it would be the sub communicating his confusion and ignorance to the Dom and the Dom either acting as a mentor/teacher OR informing the sub that it is best to educate oneself before practicing and ending the current s3x relationship.

Anyways, long story short, I love this so far.

OOOHHHH MY LORD we LOVE an educated dom. Hit me with that CONSENT. Hit me with that CHECKING up on the sub. Hit me with that PRAISE. Hit me with that TRAINING. Ooooohhhhhhhhh buddy I am BARKING.

Swoon~. Idk if he's a red flag yet because so far he's consistently asked if he was okay, always asked for consent, and provided aftercare. There have been some moments where I've been on edge cause it seems like maybe coercion. But nothing concrete yet. Right now I'd cry of happiness if he would be my dom, dear goodness. But gosh. I'ma wait nd see 

Wait WAIT I have so much anxiety. Ever since the misunderstanding okay it's been WEEKS omg. I need the anxiety to settle so pls make up nd be happy bby boys 😭😭😭

Ah, yes. The "no romantic feelings" fck buddy contract turned "oh no he's gentle so I'm catching feelings" trope. Here for it.

The way the boss is drawn just does things to me like ohmylawd have mercy.

Me: I can only see this going into secondhand embarrassment territory.

Result? Sure enough. I died a lil bit.

"daddy smell" really got me fam

 red flags are hawt dang it