@Chenel I wasn’t speaking from privilege or a lack of empathy. I was reacting to a behavior I’ve personally seen before and how uncomfortable it made me feel.
When I said it was beyond my comprehension, I meant that I struggle to understand the behavior not that I’m unaware of pain or loneliness.
Saying “just be you” was meant as encouragement, not judgment. We all have our own struggles and lives to deal with

@Ning Tisuki You got me smiling