Jacqueee Stevens's comments

YESSSSSS I NEED MORE! Jake it's time for Dan to haunt your every moment of the day and night. You didn't deserve someone great like Dan... im glad to see that you are an absolute mess and unfortunately I don't feel sorry for you. You treat people like sh** for so long eventually that karma will make its way back to you 10 fold :

She doesn't know that he didn't cheat tho.. did you miss that? He never once cleared up the misunderstanding; matter of fact NEVER wanted to actually find out what happened. Time and time again, that girl tried to tell him what happened and he didn't want to know. So what else was the FL supposed assume if not him cheating on her with that woman. Innocent until proved guilty.

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What did she do? Did she accuse him right from the start that he was messing around with someone? No, she didn't. She simply asked what was going on and that she didn't feel comfortable with how she was being around him. Any GF would feel some discomfort around a woman that is making it quite obviously she wants their man. Now at this point, she's uneasy but she trusts him to figure it out. So he tells her that everything is fine and she won't be a problem. Okay fine. Nothings happened so far after this until it does. She not only doesn't stop but makes it very obvious she knows that he has a woman and she doesn't care. Whether that be chasing after him after work to 'give back a lighter' he gave to her, or getting him coffee because she wanted to be nice. So you have to sit and think, why did he accept the coffee; why did he not only continue to allow her to be close but not close enough for his gf to see?. And if it wasn't bad enough, they are texting about seeing each other after work? when he was supposed to be working out? It was mistake after mistake with this guy, and you want to call her crazy for being the way she is? How can you not be? And to make it better, he not only lied once but twice and she had to be the one to figure out what had happened even though it was a misunderstanding. THAT HE NEVER CLEARED UP. The reason you want to defend him about being tired of her is because he doesn't feel it's necessary to be responsible for what he did to her. I'm sorry if I CANT REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENED ONE NIGHt WITH ANOTHER WOMAN AND I HAVE SOMEONE AT HOME WAITING FOR ME, don't you think you ought to find out what really happened and explained the situation. But no, he never did. It didn't cross his mind that what he did to her was reasonable for how she acted towards him. When you're drunk, you tend to ALWAYS tell what you've surpressed in your subconscious. And she did..

To be frank, everyone can call her crazy or that she needs some serious help. Maybe she does, but let's look at this in a different perspective. ML has known for a long time that FL has been awfully dependent on him for her emotional aspect of the relationship. We all know this. So did he. FL has had it rough from the beginning whether it be with the abuse of the family or her own self. In all seriousness, she's never had anyone to lean on or trust. Never given the opportunity or someone to actually want to. Imagine yourself in those shoes, and one day out of the blue when the tunnel has been so dark someone barges into your life with the intention of freeing you from yourself. Do you take the hand or push it away. Most would run and keep going in fear it's a trap. Others like her; decided to take the hand given and accepted for the first time that someone actually wants to be there for her. While that being said, 10 years with someone that is the only one in your corner can be a double edged sword for you. Everything has been fine and has worked for the both of you. No complaints, you're content and happy. Now imagine, this very person you have stacked everything on whether it be your trust, emotions, safety or your dependence. Casually not fast but not slow either starts to change and little things start to become scene more in the open. What's your sudden reaction or feeling per say? Do you accuse him of cheating or do you brush it off and wait till he tells you what's going on because YOU TRUST HIM.

So she saved his dad, and with trying to repay. He was going to marry her? With no type of feelings for her ?! 
That's a slap in the face; not only to her feelings but just her in general. Im glad she left..

She's healing and I'm here for it

They say when you love someone, you let them go. He's only proving that he never did. She was simply a possession he couldn't let go of entirely, even though he was forced to because if not. She would be dead. People are believing that they need to work on things together and I don't believe they should. Unless you've been with someone that entirely drives the life out of you, you can't possibly want them to work things out. Some people come into your life for two reasons; some are to show you a valuable lesson and some are there to assist you on your journey. In this case, he's a lesson that she will have to get through. No matter how much communication, working things out, or even the simple 'let's fix this'. The amount of pain, regret and trauma. Nothing will ever be the same. He had multiple years to sit down and formally introduce himself and his past to her. He didn't. Never once. Matter of fact, he blamed her most the time. Guilt is what is eating himself alive and his pride. She's simply tired of how miserable she's become and is when she is around him. It's time for them to say goodbye and end it.

A full grown man twice the size of her ? Where was she supposed to go? It wouldn't have mattered if she scratched or kicked him. It would have egged him on even more and he probably would have done worse.  Some are quick to judge a situation based on their own opinions which is fine but I don't believe for one second you could say anything if you were her. She did the best she could and he got off of her. This is just more of a reason for her to continue to distant and eventually get away from that bas****..

Ever put your trust into someone? 
Now imagine that same person and yourself losing that trust ? What usually happens? You fight, break up? Most the time but there are times where regardless of what has happened; you still want to stay with them. Maybe because of the amount of love you have for them or the amount of time that has been shared together. It's different for everyone. Trust is a double edged sword, you might be pointing the sword at them but at the same time you're cutting yourself. You have to give to receive. One way or another, you are bound to get cut anytime whether they break the trust or you do. In this case, he lied, never communicated { both parties I may add } and never gave a clear understanding of what happened that night with that woman. And instead of sitting down and talking about it. It's been put on the back burner and almost [forgotten] about. When in all reality, she's losing it. Anxiety and paranoia are two dangerous feelings to have combined and especially with trust that is broken. We can't honestly be mad at her completely. Is she being excessive! Yes, absolutely. But without communication and assurance, her feeling the way she does is normal in most cases like this. You can't tell me, you wouldn't feel the way she does if you've been with someone for over 10 years and this all happened within a week or two.

He ultimately broke her. Take example of her family; they used and abused her from the jump and even after running away and disappearing  They somehow show up and harass her once again. And never recovering from that trauma your whole life will affect your life drastically. No matter how hard you try, you will constantly be reminded of it. So when he came into the picture and entered her world as like a saving grace and someone she could have that was on her side. Ultimately, she depended on his stability to keep her afloat. Now I know it's not healthy of course, but it was working for the long run until it wasn't. So when the tables started to shift and become unsteady so did she. As for the him becoming more involved time and time again with that woman, did we honestly think she was going to just let it slide? After already voicing that she's uncomfortable with it. I'm sorry but the second he lied to her face without a second glance was when he lost her. There was no more trust. There was nothing. And him coming to the rescue for her with her family was just crass. On top of that, NEVER TALKING ANYTHING OUT. For her going back, that's 10 plus years of history that can't just be dropped overnight. Especially since he kept her afloat. So her realization of hating him more than the woman shows that even the person that she kept close like family can make you feel absolutely horrible. And if anyone was in her shoes, I don't believe for one second you could just drop the person you've had by your side for years and be okay even after what he did.

YES MY BABY!!!!!! now your husband cares if you're home or not hahahahha, maybe he should have been better or better yet. Not such a wh*** and started messing around with someone from his past lmaooo. Did he think she would sit still when she found out about his real feelings towards her. PLUS SHE HAS SOMEONE THAT CARES ABOUT HER AND APPRECIATES HER. And even MAKES SURE SHE IS SATISFIED IN BED... OH COME ON!!!!

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Beautiful story!! I loved it 
October 19th 1:14 am

The amount of scenarios I came up with to take that mf out if I were her, is actually scary. The amount of rage I'm feeling just from her expression has got chills going down my spine...

The anxiety never disappears.... it will gradually consume her to the point where she looks ''crazy''....
and because she's trying so hard to go against her better judgement. It'll only become more toxic over time

Like she said earlier, they continue to pile up the problems on top of each other with no resolution... and trust me when i tell you; it becomes a full blown sickness that anxiety of the person your with caught being with someone else and you decide to stay together... it gets worse over time with the lingering anxiety constantly...it's like I'm reading about myself in her relationship... it's hard and it's not something you can control. Once that trust from your partner is gone, it takes a very strong bond and even that isn't enough to bring the spark back into i

DADDDDY LOOKS SO MF SE** IN THAT SUIT😍😍😍 i need me a man that can dress like that for me,

THE TEARS WONT STOP FALLING

Well what did she expect? He quite literally got rid of everyone that ever gave her issues in her life and made it miserable. Did she think she would be able to leave when her husband was still alive? We all know that mf would have broken an ankle and chained her up with his psychotic a** 😗 Did my man go a little overboard, probably. But were his intentions, good? It was all for HER.