I personally don't mind if her gives her some half assed forgiveness, becauses despite his valid reasoning what she did she didn't do with the intent to harm. 

They can't get together though, will NOT accept that, all about elf girl now.

Granted he is being pretty childish here but still his reasoning is VERY valid.  While she never intended any harm to him, at least physical, she did say some awful things in an effort to get him to quit when she could have just as easily tried to calmly explain it to him at an inn or something and DIDN'T.

Not to mention the complete lack of help in regarding his own blessing, even when they found a book that could help unlock his abilities she straight up dismissed it due to her goals of wanting to be the strongest party and so put his needs aside and let them stagnate without a word.

So while it may not have been intended but in the end through her actions of trying to keep him safe she STILL fuc*** him over ROYALLY and he nearly got killed for it.  Remember the road to he** is paved with good intentions.