@Yayo  LMAO ME TO BUT ITS WHATEVER

@Gay kids thank you, i dont see how they can accept these things although its just a manhwa its pretty fuc*** if it was an rl situation.

@Gay kids I see where you're coming from, but I think we need to separate the concepts of trauma healing and healthy relationships? i can agree with you that Chiwoo might need space to heal, the idea that being with someone like Blondie (who might not be treating him well) is a good way for Chiwoo to recognize manipulation and gaslighting is problematic.   
If Chiwoo is already in a relationship where he feels gaslit or manipulated, that’s not the right environment for HIM or  healing, even if he might eventually learn to recognize those signs, It's much more likely that continued exposure to these toxic dynamics would worsen his mental health and make it even harder for him to heal from past trauma so he really shouldnt be with the blondie i dont see the hype.
In terms of Blondie, while you might not see the behaviors as abusive, it's important to look at the overall dynamics of the relationship?? Manipulation doesn’t always have to be overt; it can also involve emotional coercion, boundary-pushing, or even subtle forms of control. The way Blondie treats Chiwoo may not seem like abuse, but if Chiwoo is not being respected or if his feelings are being invalidated, that's still a form of harm, hes using his feelings against him!! 

Lastly, I agree with you that Chiwoo might need time alone to heal, rather than jumping into another relationship right away  Both options (Blondie and the Black dude) seem to have elements that could continue the cycle of toxicity, and Chiwoo deserves space to figure out what he really needs and wants in a relationship without that pressure, yeah ill agree with you because they both are toxic but imo, chiwoo shouldnt date NEITHER of them, i dont see the hype.

@Montii   no yeah, of course!

@Montii i am but thanks. you both are rlly confused here.

@Montii I see what you're saying, and I agree that defending himself shows he's strong and capable of taking care of himself. It’s clear that separating from the source of pain, in this case, the black-haired person, is a form of self-care, especially if staying in that relationship continues to hurt him. And I think it’s amazing that he found someone who allows him to be himself and brings him peace.

that said, I also think it’s important to remember that relationships, especially long-term ones, are complicated. Healing doesn’t always happen overnight, and while it might seem like a fresh start with someone new is the best solution, there’s also a lot of room for growth in a person’s journey—whether that's through a new relationship or possibly reconciling with the past if it’s done in a healthy way? but both is still fuc*** accept that!!!

@Montii I get that you're expressing your opinion, and I appreciate your passion about it. However, I think it's important to acknowledge that relationships—whether romantic or platonic—are complex, and people’s feelings matter, regardless of the history involved.

It's not about ignoring past hurts or saying one person is 'right' and another is 'wrong,' but rather understanding that people grow, and emotions play a key role in how they heal or move forward. Just because someone has been there for a long time doesn't necessarily mean they are the best person for someone, especially if there's been emotional or physical harm. On the other hand, someone new in their life, like the blonde-haired person, could bring a healthier, more supportive dynamic but hes fuc*** and thats my opinion and a sick perv. 

At the end of the day, it's important to prioritize emotional well-being and choose what makes someone feel safe, valued, and happy. Every person deserves to be with someone who respects their feelings and supports their growth??

@Gay kids you sound f'ucking dumb here, dont you think are you lost??, where did bdsm come from? and its really easy to tell the difference between ra** and s** cmon now, what are you because i think your defending ra**. even if hes a grown a** man that other man could rlly beat him up badly and STILL RA** HIM, you should be ashamed ???

@Gay kids 1st of all  to be really honest, the black haired wanted to protect him so i feel where hes coming from, from losing an loved one even though his actions are pretty shi*** and he deserves what he did but he deserved an second chance dony you think?

i also never said the black haired is better this isnt a competition on whos worse, they both are tied and also this is a freedom of speech so i basically can say whatever I want. plus what is the point of defending blondie if hes gonna use his feelings against him and raped him hmmm? ( in the sequal)  not only the fact i do know the difference, your just a braindeaded slob thats highly confused of this situation. 

and to be honest i dont care WHAT you have, its not even cute or cool to choose someone who will use your feelings against you? and to be honest you also need therapy dont be a hypocrite, why would you want a relationship where your own partner gaslights, manipulates, and rapes you, are you okay? 

@Ran i enjoy reading these ran reports

@Gay kids actually he pretty much tries to gaslight chiwoo as you can see, nd he pretty much tries to get in the way, also chiwoo stated that his actions are making him uncomfy and he finds excuses to not do it again but he does it anyway, are you and monti okay?!

@Montii   do you like get manipulated by ur loved one or gaslighted cause i think you must love it and seriously thats weird! no matter what its not okay to gaslight, guilt trip, manipulate someone.. even worse he also raped him?? why are we standing up for the blonde he obvs wants to get in the way and makes chiwoo uncomfy as he stated!

@Noyoki I LOVE YOU FINALLY SOMEONE GETS IT   

@ChaosanJEKJEK THE HANDSOME UNICORN ur complaining nonstop thats whats wrong

@Manu.star she has a point tho, hes a rapist, a guilt tripper, and a manipulator

@Rin SAME I JUST THINK THAT THE BLONDE IS A TOTAL PERV

@ChaosanJEKJEK THE HANDSOME UNICORN ur complaining everytime i run to these comments urk me, just stop reading if you dont like red flag bls!!

@arandompersonyoufoundontheinternet if you knew you literally gonna read a red flag bl DONT READ IT!! people obvs are gonna like these things when it comes to red flag bls keep it to ya self..

@Ezii if you know you were gonna read a red flag bl dont read it