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i hate the fact that they're brushing off the problempoco stickeri don't get why hyesung's reaction isn't like the real anger that someone would experience when they found out that not only their partner, but also their child was going behind their back to meet a parent who left them with a parent that's abusive and gave him traumapoco stickerlike if i was hyesung, my anger would last for months or even years 'cause bro that's betrayal right there
i both understand why hyesung and byul's reasons and their sides, but like... the one thing you could do to your mom, which is hyesung, was to not talk to her mother. i get it 'cause hyesung didn't want byul in the first place, but at least she learned how to love him and was actually PRESENT in his life—unlike hyesung's mother, who was present for a short amount of time, and practically disappeared. i don't get why some people are taking sides, like both of their sides are reasonable, and the fact that byul KNEW about it in such a young age is probably so traumatizing or whatever in his part—to know that your own mother didn't want you in the first place. don't take any sides y'allpoco stickerboth of it has its reasons, and it's understandable why such things like this happens. it's like generational trauma, but hyesung was the one who broke it 'cause he chose to stay by byul's side—he didn't even want to hold byul's baby sister when she was born because he didn't hold byul when byul was born. that's one of the proofs that he's guilty of what had happened, but guilt and apologies sometimes doesn't really heal a person's wound. it'll always be there—when hyesung's mother left him, and when byul found out that hyesung didn't even want him in the first placepoco sticker
whenever i reread this part or see it online, i always think that people who are born into a family who's so understanding and open to things like in THIS manhwa are so lucky. like, whoever's born in a family like that should be thankful 'cause not everyone has a functional familypoco stickerand honestly? it's making me cry 'cause i wasn't born into a family like this—i'm not saying that mothers AND fathers should neglect or hide some dislike or some sort of sh** like what taesung's mother did, but y'all get the point, alright?
so since someone vented here, i'm gonna vent too cuz something similar happened to me. me and my "girlfriend" were together for like 2—almost 3—years and stuff, and we were young, young—we haven't reached out teenage years yet. my mom, soon, found out abt it by reading my messages with her. my mom was like a type of person who's fine with anyone being gay or something, but it wasn't okay if her own child was like that. she began to yell at me, shout at me and stuff. she told me to leave that girl alone, which i did. i explained it to her properly, and we had no contact UNTIL i tried to find a way to text her on other platforms—basically fighting for our relationship. my mom doesn't know any sh** that i still kept in contact with her. it broke my heart cuz i was planning to tell my mom that i also like girls, cuz i thought that she would be okay and be understanding but i guess i thought wrong. now, that girl has a boyfriend. we still messaged each other here and there, but we're not close anymore—we're losing contact w each other. not gonna lie, she was my greatest, internet love—we met cuz my cousin was friends with her. i can't move on from her, well, not in a romantic way. i can't move on from her cuz we also built a friendship bond, we understood each other, and stuff. i also can't get over the fact that i thought my mom was the kind of person who will accept their child with full arms and no doubt, guess i was wrong. meanwhile, the girl's mom knows about me and accepts the two of us back then so yeah. idk, man, maybe in another life me and that girl are still together... but, hey, gotta move on w life, right? things like this happens—not to everyone, but some.
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Yass
8 months ago
@Yass shame on you
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