I actually wanted to talk about a problem I have with someone. I had this best friend who I hangout and talk to all the time, but we stopped being friend because of something. I was a people pleaser (I'm still one) and when she asked me money I always gave her. When she asked me to go out with her because she was bored I was always coming. But I've complained to my another friend (let's name her Anna) that I was tired of giving her money and that I didn't know what to do to tell her that I didn't want to give anymore. Anna told me that she was surely using me and that I shouldn't be friend with her anymore. And when I told (let's name her Jane) that I didn't wanted to be friend with her she spread rumors about me bullying her and she told like half of my secrets to people
