Are the majority of the fans kids? I genuinely don't understand how people think Eunhyuk believing Su-ae might leave him because of his hearing loss is somehow stupid. Someone can be the kindest, most understanding person in the world, and you'd still struggle to open up about your trauma. That's literally how trauma works—it isn't rational. Just because you know someone would probably accept you doesn't mean your brain suddenly lets you be vulnerable. Everyone also keeps complaining that Su-ae is "dragging Dohwa along" even though she knows how he feels, but there's nothing wrong with her genuinely seeing him as a friend and wanting to keep that friendship. If anything, I wish Su-ae would set firmer boundaries and tell Dohwa that there are times when he shouldn't cross a line, especially when it comes to her love life. As for Eunhyuk, yes, he absolutely lacks communication, and that's a valid criticism. But there's a huge difference between being bad at communicating and having to talk about a traumatic event that still affects your daily life years later. Opening up about something that changed your life forever isn't easy, no matter how much you love or trust someone. People are acting like his fear makes no sense when it's actually one of the more believable parts of the story. You can criticize the pacing, the 10-year time skip, or the way the plot has been handled—that's completely fair—but acting like his trauma is unrealistic completely misses the point. I still love this manhwa, but if I'm being honest, I enjoyed it a lot more before the time skip.
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liu3 days ago
@liu Comparing trauma is when you know you've lost the plot. It isn't Dohwa's choice whether Su-ae should or should not go see Eunhyuk. Eunhyuk has been getting hate ever since he left Su-ae for 10 years, and rightfully so, but don't you think you're being a little hypocritical? Dohwa also stopped talking to Su-ae for 10 years. She considered him her best friend, and when someone sees you as their best friend, you don't just disappear for a decade because your feelings weren't reciprocated. Also, Eunhyuk staying in contact with Ra-im sucks, but we all knew how much guilt he was carrying after believing they were half-siblings, and he wanted to be there for her so she wouldn't be alone. And please don't use the defense of, "Well, Eunhyuk was her boyfriend, so it hurts more." It hurts just as much, especially since Su-ae considered those two the people she cared about most in high school while she was already dealing with the pain of Ra-im kissing her boyfriend.
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the eunhyeok stans are wild hating on dohwa for hiding su ae's phone lol, yes I do agree eunhyeok is...
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Bea3 days ago
@Bea Eunhyuk didn't suddenly wake up and think, "Su-ae is ableist." His hearing loss is directly tied to one of the worst moments of his life, so it's something he's learned to hide and be ashamed of. Even if Su-ae is the kindest person in the world, that doesn't magically erase those fears. Plenty of people with insecurities hide things from people they love—not because they think that person is bad, but because they're terrified of being seen differently. You can absolutely criticize the pacing of the story—I agree it's been dragged out—but I don't think Eunhyuk's fear is the unrealistic part. Trauma doesn't follow common sense. It follows past experiences. Whether the writing executed that idea well is a different discussion, but his hesitation itself isn't unbelievable.
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Yes I was hating on this story a month ago yes I'm still reading it yes I'm still going to hate on t...
I didnt think I could hate her so much from when I hated her during season 1.
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Hhhhhhhhjin3 days ago
@Hhhhhhhhjin Everyone is either ignorant or has double standards. They coddle Do Hwa even though he also—if I'm not mistaken—didn't talk to Su Ae for 10 years. Whether it was because he was upset that she got together with Eunhyuk or for some other reason, you don't stop talking to someone who considers you their best friend just because they didn't reciprocate your feelings. The reason Eunhyuk ghosting her makes everyone mad is because he was her boyfriend.
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@myaaee uhh that's exactly the reason why he's toxic bruh. Imagine your bf just disappear...
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hani3 days ago
@hani she didnt have feelings for dohwa though.. none of them could've possibly known what was going to happen in the future.
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It's your own fault, if it wasn't for tou Dohwa and Su-ae would've been together and SHE wouldn't ha...
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myaaee3 days ago
@myaaee Everyone is either ignorant or has double standards. They coddle Do Hwa even though he also—if I'm not mistaken—didn't talk to Su Ae for 10 years. Whether it was because he was upset that she got together with Eunhyuk or for some other reason, you don't stop talking to someone who considers you their best friend just because they didn't reciprocate your feelings. The reason Eunhyuk ghosting her makes everyone mad is because he was her boyfriend.
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omg why does everyone hate eunhyuk so much I feel like he had a good reason for disappearing?? he ju...
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Lami3 days ago
@Lami umm.. what does him texting her all the time have to do with him possibly having a gf??
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Is the writer on crack or smth wtf
This doesn't make sense UGHGHFUSHSYSH
HE TEXTS HER AL...
This doesn't make sense UGHGHFUSHSYSH
HE TEXTS HER AL...
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