One more thing about what you said at the end : "there are many readers who feel the same way as the author so I want the notes to be a wakeup call for them and maybe get help.".
People finding the seme behavior normal or the fate of the uke deserved are no excuse for any opinion given this forcefully by the translator and the lack of maturity she had.
There are weirdos everywhere on the internet. And this translator is also one of the weirdos out there, that's for sure to me.