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Since everyone hates Jaekyung and Jinx so much, can we talk about how Jaekyung was so obviously graped by Dan when he got drunk? 
He was so obviously out of himself, couldn't give consent and Dan took advantage of that, even laughing and finding Jaekyung "cute", because he wasn't acting like himself and Dan took advantage of this to make Jaekyung do everything he wanted. Or is it only grape when the bottom is graped? pepe sticker

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Hinata
HinataManga Addict·1 year ago
@Scentless well...I never hated him(bt ppl here gonna hate me fr this)...anyways be prepared fr wht u wrote...an army will definitely come after you (n probably me too)...😂
Hinata
HinataManga Addict·1 year ago
And also I don't agree that jk raped dan...
@mangabuddyno1 if you can't recognize grape in that one time you are blind. Jaekyung doesn't remember how he got home, having s** with Dan or how kind he was when he wakes up, but Dan remembers everything and is one of the reasons why he likes Jaekyung, he liked how kind he was. If you can't see that a person that doesn't remember anything that happened the night before when he wakes up was graped then you are dumb and next time you see a bottom waking up with no recollection of the previous night you have no right to call it grape either. Jaekyung is a grapist and abuser, no doubt about it, but what Dan did that one night is called grape too.
@Scentless yes but I would like to point why so readers can understand better.
1 some may say Jae iniciated the act, we don't really see that, it's especulation so that is not consent.
2 even if he iniciated there's no such thing as consent when you are so drunk you cannot even recognize your surroandings.
3 Dan drank too, but was not drunk at all and was capable to understand what was going on. What he should've done is stop the act and let Jae sleep.
4 he did not remember a thing, true, that is how we should all know he was abused.
5 readers don't think of that as abuse because it wasn't violent or agressive, because Dan was kind and just took advantage of a drunk person. Se*ual abuse looks like this too readers, it doesn't have to be violent to be abuse.
6 Dan did took advantage so badly, saying where Jae should touch or suck, he was enjoying Jae's state of mind, his kindness, so he didn't stop it when he should've. 
And I'll add that Dan might have not stopped it because he knows Jae always uses him to relieve himself, but it's not an excuse because he saw Jae not being himself. He did abuse Jae, but most refuse to see it because the scene lacks violence. Abuse is abuse, and this one was.