Girl.... Your life is different now. You also said the other characters also had different outcomes too. So how can you think your father still remain the same? You realised your father is different now but you still brush him off because you're stuck with the past whenever you see him. You be like "i don't need to be good to him coz he will kill me later" wtf aren't you're trying to prove your power to him? But you still doubting him? Urghhh this kind of character really pi** me off. But since the storyline is nice, imma keep reading it.
Comment by Innie on Actually, I Was The Real One - Chapter 83
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@Innie she is obviously still traumitized. how would you feel if your father sent you to death and believed a witch over you. i would be angry at him for a lifetime too.
@Innie You sound like the type of guy who never had trauma all their life. Just because she thinks her father is acting different doesn't mean she's entitled to think that he won't ruin her life in the near future. Imagine seeing your father who you craved attention for in your whole life, suddenly paying attention to a random girl who just appeared suddenly, it would hurt more than anything. Moreover she was coldly executed by him because of a lowly reason. Plus her father is a coward for never initiating or never even trying to clear things up to her daughter so that she doesn't misunderstand, so how the he** would she be confident that her father wouldn't do what he did in the past?
@kaia bro wrote a whole paragraph
@Innie see...i agree that in her last life her dad killed her and it was because of that witch who manupilated him ...she has some powers that can control the mind of soething ...but what bout the othr stuff? he never cared for her ...she literally hurt herself for his attention and he never gave her that so even if i do feel sad for the dad at times he does deserve that kind of treatment ..and its not like kiara is harming her father ...she is finally moving on from her obsession to be praised by him and even he realises why she is like this with him now...but he has never apologized to her or talked to her ..how is she even supposed to know what her dad thinks ?
@Innie first of all I'm really sorry. I didn't mean to dislike your comment.
But regarding your point, you see that's the thing about trauma and abuse. They leave such a deep scar in your mind and soul that even if the person causing them changes or becomes nice, even then that trauma does not go away. You cannot bring yourself to forgive them and be on good terms and just forget or move on. It takes TIME. And even then for some people it's not possible to do so. Keira was killed by her father and it hasn't even been a year since she's come back. How can it be expected of her to see the changes in her father and try to bond with him? She's not even properly processed that traumatic experience!! And her dad's not helping either. He has neglected his children all his life to hold up the family name and will continue to do so. He doesn't express his emotions or let his thoughts be known. It will take a LOT OF TIME and LOTS OF COMMUNICATION before they start seeing eye to eye.
But regarding your point, you see that's the thing about trauma and abuse. They leave such a deep scar in your mind and soul that even if the person causing them changes or becomes nice, even then that trauma does not go away. You cannot bring yourself to forgive them and be on good terms and just forget or move on. It takes TIME. And even then for some people it's not possible to do so. Keira was killed by her father and it hasn't even been a year since she's come back. How can it be expected of her to see the changes in her father and try to bond with him? She's not even properly processed that traumatic experience!! And her dad's not helping either. He has neglected his children all his life to hold up the family name and will continue to do so. He doesn't express his emotions or let his thoughts be known. It will take a LOT OF TIME and LOTS OF COMMUNICATION before they start seeing eye to eye.
@cysera sorry that was an accident