@hehaiswhaha but JH does behave impulsively and irresponsibly often which is childish. Garam has already communicated his (actual legitimate) trauma and anyone expecting him to just get over it is being unreasonable. Prior to this JH has never had a male lover and was highly homophobic why wouldn't Garam still have reservations? His own parent didn't accept him. JH's parents didn't accept him or the relationship. JH's mom basically assumed it was another of JH's tantrums and said so. Garam is scared. It doesn't mean JH is wrong. But neither is Garam. He just has some sh** to figure out. He loves JH and is terrified of losing him or being the cause of harm. I adore them both.