@Cain_vrd Sure children will not alway be a reflection of their parents. After all they are their own person and as they grow they will see and experience new things and then make decisions on what they would accept and what they won't. As for with me, my parents are aware that I read BL, maybe not the intensity of it, and they don't need to know, I am a full grown adult and I can take my own decisions. And these were experiences I decided to have as an adult and I am accountable for myself. But with a child, the parents will always have to be held accountable. I speak as an adult woman capable of having kids, and I would like to be held accountable to my children's well being and moral values, and I will always argue that the parent cannot escape that responsibility ever