@Corrina  A child is not always a reflection of their parents. No matter how much love and education a parent gives, a child can still be bad. Anyway, children are curious and touch everything, so I don't blame her. You were children too, and you did stupid things despite your parents' prohibitions
@Cain_vrd They always are. And love and education aren't the only things they need to be given. Discipline and moral values are needed. Not to mention, they see and learn, so a kids being given love and education but still acting up means they are not seeing and learning the same things from their role models behaviour towards each other.
@Corrina So....yes, children are not always reflections of their parents since they can pick up bad habits during their social interactions outside the home. So blaming the parents is a bit much. Just as a child can have bad parents but be good, because he was influenced by someone else...
@Cain_vrd We can keep having this back and forth and it seems neither you nor I am going to budge from our point of view. Your argument on picking up bad habits from social circles only comes in place when the children leave their family circle and build a friend circle, which considering her age isn't likely the case. How is it a bit much to blame the parents when it is their moral responsibility to raise the kids with values, and reprimand them when they go astray? Do you not praise parents if the kids behave well?? You don't praise their social circle first, do you?
@Cain_vrd Sure children will not alway be a reflection of their parents. After all they are their own person and as they grow they will see and experience new things and then make decisions on what they would accept and what they won't. As for with me, my parents are aware that I read BL, maybe not the intensity of it, and they don't need to know, I am a full grown adult and I can take my own decisions. And these were experiences I decided to have as an adult and I am accountable for myself. But with a child, the parents will always have to be held accountable. I speak as an adult woman capable of having kids, and I would like to be held accountable to my children's well being and moral values, and I will always argue that the parent cannot escape that responsibility ever
@I LOVE TEN AND YUTA nah i agree even tho shes a cute kid and all, u cant be wandering into anyones room in the first place without knocking let alone touch their stuff, at least she owwned up and learnt her lesson but bro i wouldve been so mad