Comment by HighOnYaoi on One room TA - Chapter 61

Comment on ChapterOne room TA - Chapter 61
HighOnYaoi
HighOnYaoi·3 months ago
Ch. 61

They both are wrong here and I feel bad for both of them. That's what happens when you trauma bond and share everything with a person(most of the time, though there's some exceptions). You need up hurting each other and do something so wrong you can never make that right.

I love everything and read/watch everything xD

I lost count of how many fandoms I'm in ToT

 Still mourning for my wife bato 🚬🚬

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@HighOnYaoi Jinhyeong’s relationship with his father is a trauma bond. Traumatic bonding is when a person who is being abused develops a strong emotional attachment to their abuser, often because of a cycle of cruelty and affection, along with a power imbalance. The abuser may hurt or mistreat them at times and then act loving or kind afterward, which can make the victim hold onto the hope that things will eventually get better. 

The term “trauma bonding” has caused a lot of people to misunderstand what it actually means, but that’s not what it refers to. What people usually call “Stockholm syndrome” is actually closer to what trauma bonding means.

HighOnYaoi
HighOnYaoi·1 month ago

@gggirl I'm sorry if it's sounds offensive but your reply feels like AI 😭😭. Thank you tho for the information, I didn't know it and was misunderstanding the term