@Anami it got better I kinda showed her what my boundarys are and it worked out She still talks behind my back and all that stuff , but she sees that I need my own space . I also go to a therapist now cause I've been hurting myself but I'm almost out of that bubble and I also get advice from her how to handle the situation ( I really hope this doesn't let me seem like I'm a drama queen) But thank you for your concern and I hope you have a great day