Comment by I love Tian Guan Ci Fu on Gentle Forest - Chapter 5

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It doesn't really has anything to do with the topic , but I might get advice here so I hope you can help me. I have a friend which I am in the same class with , she thinks we're best friends , but I don't really like her which I figured out with the time , but at that moment I was already stuck in the situation.  She always says something like "that outfit doesn't fit you,  don't wear that again " and when I don't share her opinion or don't want to do anything with her on the weekend she'd et angry and yell at me sometimes.
One day, and I don't know why the fu** I did it , I told her I was bi , and I really regretted it ( I made clear that I don't like her and don't want a relationship,  but I thought that she's my freind and that she could keep the secret) .
But then she talked about how it would be if we were together and made it really awkward and said some other things i don't remember.
I don't really wanna be freinds with her ,but I fear she might get angry if I tell her ( she hits people rearly but I still fear that she might throw a tantrum)
Im really sorry if i annoyed you , but if you have any advise,  could you tell me how to get out of this situation
Don't be afraid of losing people if they don't accept you as you are. There are always people who like you . You just need to find them
Btw, I read yaoi ( as you can see)
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Mii chan
Mii chan·1 year ago
@I love Tian Guan Ci Fu hey girlie as a person who faced the same typa scenario you should definitely make some new friends and make clear boundaries from your side honestly i too haye this kinda people 
I hope you get outta this unwanted friendship soon 
Hope this helps even if its just a lil ^_^
@I love Tian Guan Ci Fu honestly had a similar issue few years back and i just invited that person for a honest conversation, even thought i knew shes not mature enough to quite get it, i just told her she was too much and told her about things that annoy me. At first she went bonkers but later on she never ever tried to do anything unpleasant to me...so ig thats my advice. Just make sure that ure the one ready for the conversation since ull be leading it. Lol good luck anyways!
@Mii chan thank you so much for you advice , I'll try to talk to her and set boundaries.  And again , thank you for understanding me😊
@I love Tian Guan Ci Fu Is your situation with your friend alright now? (sorry if I'm being nosy)
@Anami it got better
I kinda showed her what my boundarys are and it worked out
She still talks behind my back and all that stuff , but she sees that I need my own space .
I also go to a therapist now cause I've been hurting myself but I'm almost out of that bubble and I also get advice from her how to handle the situation ( I really hope this doesn't let me seem like I'm a drama queen)
But thank you for your concern and I hope you have a great day
@I love Tian Guan Ci Fu That's good to hear that you are alright now💕💕 
AND you're seeing a therapist it's good it's brave and no you don't sound like a drama queen at all. Self love and self care are important AF. If that girl bothers you give me her address pepe sticker
I hope you keep to grow everyday. Love yha. Have a great day💕💕💕
@Anami thank you 
That with the cutting myself got much better and I try to take care of myself .Iam so happy that you are so nice to me 
Wish you a great day♥️
@I love Tian Guan Ci Fu i accidentally clicked angry emoji but girly im so glad that ur doing better.