Man....this feels sh**.ty, I met the perfect girl (irl)we hit it off great instanly ,we want the same things our conversations are alwsys refreshing give each other space and yeah I feel nah I know she wants to make it official and we talked bout if were ever gonna do this we'll go all the way(im 24 shes 23 so yeah), but for me going into this I had decided it's just gonna be for fun and honestly I feel nothing for her except the part that it makes me feel good when she showers me with attention love and is nice to me,she cooks a he** Lotta food for me when ever I'm over her place she's perfect, I know if I walk away I'll prolly never gonna get a hold of her again but also she deserves to know how I feel , for rn she's just someone whose convent for me she's just too good for me but that's the reason I don't want to let her go I can't let anyone have her but lol this hollow feeling idk what to do
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@Shi*** guy lolz pathetic 😂
@Diablo I love what you said 🤣
@Diablo no sh** that's why I'm venting😂
@Shi*** guy lolz just let the poor girl alone. If you just want to have fun, find someone that wants the same as you. Why do you want someone to shower you with love and attention if you're not gonna reciprocate her feelings? Just complete trash, not because you want to have fun or like the way the girl treats you, but because you know you can't reciprocate her feelings but refuse to let her go knowing she's as good as it gets and you won't find someone better.
@Bldemon yep ive been thinking of doing that the last couple of day but I don't wanna be alone it's selfish but she's been a g** sent I wish so bad that I can reciprocate those feelings for her but hmmm ive been manipulating her,telling her things she wants to hear, lying and I just feel horrible and the emptiness in me jus grows
@Shi*** guy lolz I'd call you an A$$hole, but the other day I saw a grown A$$ man in the middle of starbucks yelling at his girlfriend, calling her a stupid bit*h and saying she was worthless. Why? Because she got him the wrong drink, she broke down in tears appolgizing and begging for forgiveness, then she went and got him a new drink. I wanted deck the worthless little sh*t, and I might have if my friend didn't grab me when I started walking towards him.
@Shi*** guy lolz do not lead the poor girl on if you have no intention to be seriouse. I cannot say it enough, be honest, tell her the truth, say waht you said here to her. She cannot make decisions based on a lie. you can be her friend. but do not string her along if you offer her no future.
You want someone to stroke your ego and care for you. everyone wants that. I would say to think about if you can see dating her seriously, with marriage in mind, but sounds like you already have and nixed it. So you are left drawing a hard line in the sand and telling her you wan tto be her firend but you are just not in the headspace to be dating at this time, you enjoy her company, but not to expect anything more from it.
You want someone to stroke your ego and care for you. everyone wants that. I would say to think about if you can see dating her seriously, with marriage in mind, but sounds like you already have and nixed it. So you are left drawing a hard line in the sand and telling her you wan tto be her firend but you are just not in the headspace to be dating at this time, you enjoy her company, but not to expect anything more from it.
@Shi*** guy lolz
You feel horrible? Hm.
So maybe your heart is not made of plastic after all..
It's a good start. Maybe.
But yaknow, in fact, there are not many tasks in life, man.
Of course, we can talk about bla bla honesty or even the meaning of life or other ṣhït etc... but I'm agree with Malgus - one of the few things anyone can do (and that's really the bare minimum) is just not being an åsshọle.
You feel horrible? Hm.
So maybe your heart is not made of plastic after all..
It's a good start. Maybe.
But yaknow, in fact, there are not many tasks in life, man.
Of course, we can talk about bla bla honesty or even the meaning of life or other ṣhït etc... but I'm agree with Malgus - one of the few things anyone can do (and that's really the bare minimum) is just not being an åsshọle.
@Shi*** guy lolz she definitely loves you and is serious about you but you don't want to let her go because you don't want anyone else having her? Typical man 
@Shi*** guy lolz Congratulations, you've managed to find the perfect emotional punching bag who cooks for you.