@Shi*** guy lolz do not lead the poor girl on if you have no intention to be seriouse. I cannot say it enough, be honest, tell her the truth, say waht you said here to her. She cannot make decisions based on a lie. you can be her friend. but do not string her along if you offer her no future.
You want someone to stroke your ego and care for you. everyone wants that. I would say to think about if you can see dating her seriously, with marriage in mind, but sounds like you already have and nixed it. So you are left drawing a hard line in the sand and telling her you wan tto be her firend but you are just not in the headspace to be dating at this time, you enjoy her company, but not to expect anything more from it.
You want someone to stroke your ego and care for you. everyone wants that. I would say to think about if you can see dating her seriously, with marriage in mind, but sounds like you already have and nixed it. So you are left drawing a hard line in the sand and telling her you wan tto be her firend but you are just not in the headspace to be dating at this time, you enjoy her company, but not to expect anything more from it.