@Aliyah ofc i do understand what you're saying it. I actually agree with you completely, I'd say maybe I was going along with the stereotype which isn't deep like i commented but yeah that's true strength deciding him being a "power"bottom is just not rightful. While my intention was just saying that he could protect himself as you know it's RARE, he's just normal not something to label him for. It's just it's so rare nowadays where it has become a trope showing a bottom weak on purpose when it's just them being a victim. I like that you pointed that out