@Levitating dank I know your comment was a month ago, but I just can't help but say, do we really need to name or call a man (who's a bottom, obviously) a "power bottom" for simply needing or wanting to protect themselves? If I'm going TBH, there IS no difference to a bottom and top being strong—what makes it different is making one WEAK and the other one STRONG, which is, unfortunately, romanticized and abused, but here's my point. Why do we need to name a bottom who's actually defending and protecting themselves, and getting away to the person who's attemping to ra** or do inappropriate, unforgivable things, a power bottom? I mean, I'm proud of him for getting away from that ass****, but I wouldn't go as far as to call them a "power bottom" because he is a victim here. And of course, not just him.
Educate me more or share your point of view, so I at least understand what I'm missing here. And yes, I understand this "power bottom" whole thing, but then again, you know what.
@Aliyah ofc i do understand what you're saying it. I actually agree with you completely, I'd say maybe I was going along with the stereotype which isn't deep like i commented but yeah that's true strength deciding him being a "power"bottom is just not rightful. While my intention was just saying that he could protect himself as you know it's RARE, he's just normal not something to label him for. It's just it's so rare nowadays where it has become a trope showing a bottom weak on purpose when it's just them being a victim. I like that you pointed that out
@Levitating dank I'm not trying to argue or maybe it does sound like I'm trying to argue, but I just wanted to say that I completely agree with you. Although It's true it really is not that deep, and I approve of that, but what a fool, I made it sound like it's a big deal. So for that, I'm sorry for sounding like a total dumbass. Anywho, thank you for commenting me that. That's all I will say.
@Aliyah tbh it's good that u said all that and defended ur point. Don't minimise it. A grown up man should not be called a power bottom for defending himself, simply because it's rare. It's no excuse. It's time to normalise these type of things so we see them more in stories instead of praising it and acting like it's a miracle. All your points were reasonable, you're not a fool for it and it's good that you spoke up about it. Please keep doing that so other people don't go around saying foolish stuff and looking like idiots. You're not the dumbass here.
@Aliyah no I never thought you were making a big fuss I even said that I like that u pointed that out. Im with u in that and like I said I was just going with stereotype which should not be okay anymore. U made a good point and thankyou to u too