And THIS is why you make sure the fu.ckboy you just asked to go on a couple of dates understands and agrees that you expect monogamy š¤£
He literally told him.... I told you I was dating others and you asked me to date you too.Ā
He had no idea what it was expected of him.Ā
Never assume shi.t; always talk until both parties understand where you're both standing or else getting angry is stupid
I hate to do this again but I have to state my opinion. I agree with what you're saying that Euntak is basically naive for expecting a f*ckboy to change for him but I think he has the right to express his emotions and getting angry despite yes he was really naive.
but. I think Euntak does not have to spell every single word to Dojae so that he understands that ādonāt sleep with other peopleā meaning do not sleep with other people. Dojae has all the right in the world to refuse Euntakās whole proposal if he doesnāt agree but he didnāt. Thatās why Euntak EXPECTS Dojae to understands that he wants āmonogamyā, just for the 3 dates, just for that.
I don't care what he expects. He should've asked and made sure he understood.
Let's change the word playboy to abused. If you find a guy who's been abused all his life, it's fu.cking stupid to expect him to treat you sweetly and lovingly. Why?... Because he has no idea how!!! So instead of being in your "I except you to..." self-righteous attitude, you explain what it is to have a healthy relationship.
Or can't you tell he has absolutely no idea how to have a relationship? Can't you tell he literally had to ask if his feelings meant he was in love ? How the he** do you expect him to be like a regular person that has been in a monogamous, loving relationship? So YES, HE HAS TO SPELL EVERY SINGLE WORD SO DOJAE UNDERSTANDS.
If he can't deal with that or it makes him sad to try, then he should just date people who are kind and used to being loved.Ā
Where the he** is your empathy and your brain? Do better.
I understand dojae has a condition that makes him apathetic of sorts and that he is use to his fboy ways. But HE was the one who said he wouldn't sleep with others while him and euntak were dating. It is absolutely naive for euntak to believe that, but there's no denying that what dojae did was shtty. He broke a promise he made with euntak and euntak is rightfully upset.
By you saying "I don't care what he expects" says a lot. You just want to blame Uke without a reason. Why can't someone be angry? Calling him stupid for doing so.
BLUEBERRY I WOULD NOT LET THAT SLIDE!!!! U ARE THE ONE USING YOUR EMPATHY AND BRAIN HERE I ALSO AGREE WITH YOUR POINT!! OMG WHY DO PEOPLE CALLING OTHER PEOPLE BRAINLESS ON THE INTERNET SO RUDE???!! They were talking nicely
hah d*mn you sure have temper. arguing with u is like talking to a wall. you cannot compare being a playboy and being abusive at all while being abusive is a literal mental. can't you see that i'm not blaming Dojae for being a playboy? there is nothing wrong with Dojae sleeping with hundreds of people, that is not my point. BUT I said he should've rejected the whole proposal when he couldn't stop sleeping with other people. is it that hard to understand?
to answer your question YES i can tell that Dojae doesn't understand how relationship works that's why his partner has the right to be frustrated.
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@miyatobio @Lenn hah you are using your logic. idk u but i literally love u both
and i can tell you are liking your own comment and disliking ours you lalauchuch loser
š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£ I had no idea you could vote for yourself, but since you immediately thought that's what I was doing, well.... That tells me a lot about how you get your votes š¤£
as for me disliking your posts, yes š I totally dislike your post, but that's because I think you're dumb as f.u.ck š¤·š»āāļø
Not my problem you can't deal with stories with people with disabilities and how you want them to react exactly like other people would or else you're against them. Very sh.ittty of you, to be honest.
Do better, babe.
why is this monkey still talking