Comment by deleted user on deleted user

I don't care what he expects. He should've asked and made sure he understood.

Let's change the word playboy to abused. If you find a guy who's been abused all his life, it's fu.cking stupid to expect him to treat you sweetly and lovingly. Why?... Because he has no idea how!!! So instead of being in your "I except you to..." self-righteous attitude, you explain what it is to have a healthy relationship.

Or can't you tell he has absolutely no idea how to have a relationship? Can't you tell he literally had to ask if his feelings meant he was in love ? How the he** do you expect him to be like a regular person that has been in a monogamous, loving relationship? So YES, HE HAS TO SPELL EVERY SINGLE WORD SO DOJAE UNDERSTANDS.
If he can't deal with that or it makes him sad to try, then he should just date people who are kind and used to being loved. 

Where the he** is your empathy and your brain? Do better.