@Shadow laws The problem with demonisation on the social media is the problem with the social media, actually. Everything there is super magnified, distorted and radicalised. If you are heartbroken, and you liked a video about woman hating her ex, you are gonna get a whole feed filled with toxic thoughts and experiences just like this. If you are a guy, who can't get a girlfriend for a long time, and you are searching for advices, then sooner or later you will see in your feed «dating experts» who would say that ra** is actually an option. Nowadays people are so chronically online, that it messes with everything in their everyday life. Instead of processing stress and emotions people vent them to the internet for everyone to watch, which creates an extremely toxic environment. People should just go and touch some grass at this point, idk.
It's totally okay to not be okay with gold diggers, and if anyone gets offended, so what? You can't please everyone, there will always be people who just doesn't like you, and they will come up with a bunch of different excuses to make you feel miserable. It's not like she could sue you for not paying for her dinner, so why even care?
Plus, I don't think you should compare the impacts of these two cases directly. While gold diggers are extremely harmfull, they take your money, not your life or dignity. And you can still protect yourself from them, making marriage contracts or not marrying them at all, so they won't have any rights for your property.