No I haven't
first of all.. thank you all for your opinion.
If he have "cheated" physically I would have dump him. Immediately! But he didn't.
Sure the fact that he chattet with another one on a not friends base broke my heart really into pieces. And of course I felt betrayed. And I broke up with him and that was not easy- for both.
but we are together for six years, which is long and through this time he is the best human I've ever met, I swear.
and it's totally normal to fight in the relationship, and there will be always problems and that's why most of the people break up.
but we talked and we want to work on it because we love each other.
i think that is what love is about.
you must consider if you can live without this person or not.
and remember if you fight,
that it's you & your loved ones togetheragainst the problem and not you and your beloved:)